rules

because freedom, i am told, is nothing
but the distance between the hunter and its prey.

.        please.        .
Be sure to read through as much of this as you can - I'd like to prioritise everyone's comfort and make sure our interaction(s) are as fun as possible! If I or Tobias ever make you uncomfortable, let me know as soon as you can (or feel free to just hit the bricks).
.        ooc.        .
▸ 25+.
▸ Any pronouns.
▸ EST (GMT-5).
▸ IC ≠ OOC.
.    availability.    .
I'm chronically ill and always dealing with way too much IRL. I don't mind the occasional nudge if I forget to respond for a while, but please try to be patient and understanding.
I'm also extremely neurodivergent and have dyslexia, so sometimes I may misunderstand what is happening. :,)
.        style.        .
I'm generally para to multi-para one-on-one and via Discord, but like to keep things relatively short in venues. I don't mind adapting to whichever style you prefer as well.
.        wu/t.        .
I'm fine with both planning something out (send a /tell or DM me) or just a walk-up if I have my RP tag on or I'm working at a venue! If you need any ideas for approaching my character, consider looking through my hooks.

.    yes!    .
▸ Mature + Dark themes.
▸ Short-term RP.
▸ Long-term RP.
▸ Mare.
.    NOs.    .
HARD no's that are non-negotiable.
▸ ERP with Lalafells.
▸ One-on-one RP with person(s) AND character(s) under 21.
▸ Ageplay.
▸ Bigotry. This includes people that use terms such as "F+", "f*ta", "tr*p", etc.
▸ God-modding.
.    triggers.    .
Please avoid these topics without prior discussion. As a note, I'm open to the idea of healing traumas via roleplay, but only with people I really trust. (And on the other hand, I will never spring any triggering topics on you without prior discussion!)
▸ Abusive (physical + verbal) drunks.
▸ ??? Who knows, I'll think about it.
.    wip.    .
Bear with me, this page and character are largely a work in progress. Details may change from time to time and there may be a few inconsistencies as I figure things out.


about

i was driftwood trying to remember what i had broken from to get here.

.    health.    .▣▣▣▢▢
.    strength.    .▣▣▣▣▢
.    tenacity.    .▣▣▣▣▣
.    stamina.    .▣▣▣▣▢
.    intelligence.    .▣▣▢▢▢
.    dexterity.    .▣▣▣▣▣
.    perception.    .▣▣▣▣▣
.    creativity.    .▣▣▣▣▢
.    charisma.    .▣▣▢▢▢
.    empathy.    .▣▣▣▣▣
.    confidence.    .▣▢▢▢▢

.    full name.    .    Tobias Isa Harlan
.    aka.    .    Tobi, Lilja Seloh (dead name)
.    d.o.b + age.    .    April 04 / 126y
.    race.    .    Rava/Midlander
.    gender.    .    Trans man
.    pronouns.    .    He/him
.    sexuality.    .    Bisexual (Masc lean)
.    status.    .    Single
.    birthplace.    .    Golmore Jungle
.    current home.    .     it is a mystery

.    occupations.    .    Logistics of Procurement & Acquisition, Bartender & Courtesan.    languages.    .    Eorzean, Hingan, Auri, Vieran (Rava dialect)..    likes.    .    au ra men :(
.    dislikes.    .    war :(
.    height.    . 5'1" (154cm)
.    weight.    . 120pz


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hooks

to arrive at love, then, is to arrive through obliteration.

.    WHAT DO YOU HAVE?    .
.        [ A KNIFE! ...or just a weird artifact. ]
You may see (or feel) a strange artifact under his tow. He may or may not divulge into what it is, or why he's carrying it. It's not that he doesn't want to - it's just...dangerous! And he probably also doesn't want to.
.    déjà vu.    .
.        [ have we met before? ]
Those golden eyes, that dark skin littered with freckles, the strands of silver dancing amidst darker hair... Every physical feature (save for height) absolutely reeks of someone you might know.
.    and when it clicks.    .
.        [ where is your 'wanted' sister!? ]
A-ha. Tell me where she is, you might say. But he'll stare blankly at you, shrug coolly, let it roll right off of his shoulders... Fuck if he knows. "Not a single clue," he'll offer. But even if he did, he wouldn't say. If it weren't for the sense of him telling the truth, you may have apprehended him instead.
.    venue hopper.    .
.        [ we have met before! ]
He's often dancing and pouring drinks at PBM Lounge. In fact, he's probably that weird guy that often keeps to himself. Why does he even work here? Has he even gotten laid yet? ...Don't ask him that.

.    affable.    .
.        [ he's got stupid puppy energy. ]
(And that's not puppy energy that's stupid.) Despite his constant RBF, something about him makes you feel welcome to open up. Could it be his small, non-threatening stature? No. Don't tell him that, either.
.    void-touched.    .
.        [ as a treat. ]
He's entirely unaware and has zero recollection whatsoever, but his mother loosed a voidsent on him when he refused to fight for her. Ah, now it makes sense why he is so much shorter than his identical triplets. Amongst other things.
.    hook name    .
.        [ ye ye ye ye ye ]
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bonds

sometimes being offered tenderness
feels like the very proof that you've been ruined.

.    Valentine Depardieu    . same pussy but make it a little more evil; once presumed dead by Tobias. she's kind of a bully, but he would die for her..        Hip Ehrlich            . and they were roommates; we don't really know what they are yet but they kiss and fuck, i think. maybe even at the same time.